EASY FOR SOME, HARD FOR US
I'm wistfully reading Facebook
group comments from ladies who's modest clothing needs are easily and
cheaply solved by a quick trip to a thrift store.
I've never been privileged to experience that.
If
you live in a small town that has a secondhand supply of quality modest
clothing, you are BLESSED indeed. In New Zealand, if you don't have
easy access to a city recycled clothing centre, it's make your own or
buy new - usually online, so factor in shipping costs. Rural living
usually also means that buying fabric is difficult or expensive.
Yes, modest dressing is a challenge to the budget.
And it's hard work.
But it shouldn't be. Modest femininity should be fun. It should be full of delight. It should be easier.
That seems like a far stretch.
But I know I can make it better.
WIPE OUT
I've
spent six years seeking ways to make it better. Then a week ago, I lost
all of my images from this website: garment recommendations, modest
outfit styling tips, modest beauty solutions and personal care advice,
sewing tutorials and do-it-yourself fixes for immodest apparel...in a
blink, the visual element of my life's work GONE.
It's not just hiding, it's been permanently deleted, and the blogger backup turned out not to be a backup at all. I have most of the images on harddrive, but finding and reconnecting them to the appropriate text is a task so massive I can't even begin to contemplate it at this time.
AFTER THE STORM
How do you carry on after a tragedy? Here are seven survival techniques I've learned that are helping me get through my loss with grace.
1. Admit your loss, and let go.
2. Tell your soul to hope in God.
3. Thank Him continually and specifically for His goodness to you.
4. Allow yourself to grieve.
5. Re-establish routine. Take one day at a time.
6. Complete something, anything small, and celebrate it.
7. Remember your vision.
If you're dealing with loss and tragedy in your own life, I know these will work for you, too. How do I know? Because I'm like you. I'm an ordinary woman using extraordinary techniques. They work.
How do you carry on after a tragedy? First regain your equilibrium, then remember your vision. I can still make modest living better for you and for me. That purpose has not changed.
I'm pushing ahead with the new website and continuing to seek ways to fund it and staff it. I'm excited about the service we're creating, and look forward to sharing it with you.
COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS
In the meantime, if you don't have the benefit of good quality secondhand clothing stores nearby, make use of our
Modest Mall international shopping tool. Shops are constantly being added. And countries. Last week I went on a shopping spree (window kind) to Brazil! Google's "Translate Page" is a wonderful thing. If you feel the cold like I do, you might want to check out the lined, wool-blend skirt-pants and maxi skirts featured in the "Best Stores in China" section.
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Fiat lux!
Narelle
I will not be afraid of evil tidings: my heart is fixed, trusting in the LORD. [from Psalm 112:7]
